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What Hating Valentine’s Day Really Means

When people say, “I hate Valentine’s Day,” what they often mean is, “I hate being forced to take inventory of the quality and volume of love in my life.” View this image › Justine Zwiebel/BuzzFeed There are few holidays that conjure the collective groan of the public like Valentine’s Day does. Every year, there is […]

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9 Ways Board Games Are Like A Failing Relationship

Each is full of bitter recriminations and regret. 1. You fight over the petty acquisition of resources View this image › Via catan.com Real life example – Whose turn was it to buy the toilet paper? You never buy the toilet paper. Board game example – Stop hogging all the ore in Catan 2. White […]

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25 Things That Happen When You’re Single

I’m not SINGLE, I’m just in a relationship with fun and freedom. BF_STATIC.timequeue.push(function () { if (BF_STATIC.bf_test_mode) localStorage.setItem(‘posted_date’, 1407969134); }); BF_STATIC.timequeue.push(function () { document.getElementById(“update_posted_time_3417009”).innerHTML = “posted on ” + UI.dateFormat.get_formatted_date(1407969134); }); 1. People will try to set you up. View this image › Walt Disney Studios / Via idealpost.tumblr.com 2. So you’ll go on a […]

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Why Casual Hookups Take More Emotional Energy Than Relationships

We Heart It It’s 1 pm on a Thursday. I’m one of maybe 10 people in the sandwich line at the dining hall, and I see that guy. We’ve hooked up a few times. It was casual, even though there’s probably nothing actually “casual” about letting a near-stranger get all up in your naked, vulnerable body in the middle of the […]

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How I Used The Law of Attraction To Manifest A Boyfriend

Tumblr It was the summer of 2009. I was a 21-year-old college student who had just returned home from an amazing six months studying abroad in South Africa. I’d taught dance to schoolchildren at a local township. I spent four days in silent meditation on a Buddhist retreat. I sipped a few too many glasses […]

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Work-Married: 5 Signs You’ve Found Your Office BFF

Starting your first job can be nerve racking. It might be your first time having real responsibilities, real hours and real paychecks. The pressure is definitely on, and you want to present yourself in the best possible light. A new job also means meeting new people with whom you’ll share space and so many hours […]

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